Most Viscous Silicone Lube
Despite the name, this really is a lube for sex. It's a silicone lube with a reputation and a lot of die-hard fans in the queer community. After spending some time with it, I can confirm that, per drop, it lasts a little longer than most of the other silicone lubes I've tried. It also comes out of the bottle in thicker drops than other lubes—it's closer in viscosity to a water-based lube, which was a pleasant surprise. Silicone lubes can sometimes feel a little thin, but Gun Oil maintains a slick, frictionless texture no matter how long you use it.
Best for Oral Sex
Playground Pillow Talk Water-Based Lube
I tend to stay away from any lube that has a smell or taste, but something about Pillow Talk forces my saliva glands into overdrive with just a quick whiff. This ultra-silky lube has the faintest hint of rose and cream, which makes getting it on the sheets or pillows—hence the name, I’m assuming—a delight instead of a hassle. It’s this essence that makes it a great complement to any oral sex session. Not everyone is a fan of giving (or receiving, for that matter) oral sex, and that’s more than OK. But if you have something within reach that enhances the experience for both involved in different ways, then that’s what they call a win-win.
Other Good Lubes
Maude Shine
Over the years, we've tested dozens of different lubes, and some of them are pretty good if not exactly the best in any particular category. For those, we have this section.
Unbound Jelly Water-Based Lube for $18: As someone who’s been a longtime fan of Unbound products, it would be remiss not to mention its water-based lube. It has a wonderful pillowy texture that never gets sticky or tacky. It also smells amazing with a subtle hint of vanilla that, to be honest, immediately makes me think of cookies. It’s safe to use with toys, condoms, and is free of sugars like glycerin and glycol. Whether you’re looking to make penetration more pleasurable or need a little flavor to take your oral sex game to new heights, Jelly is the ideal lube for both.
Dame Arousal Serum for $30: I'm not a huge fan of warming or tingling lubes and have yet to try one that makes me a true believer. But Dame's Arousal Serum comes close. This is a warming, tingling, water-based lube that uses peppermint oil, cinnamon leaf oil, and ginger oil to provide some extra sensation during sex. If you have sensitive skin, I'd leave these products alone, but if you don't and want to try a stimulating lube, this is the one I'd recommend. Try it on a non-genital area first to ensure you know how your skin will react.
Coconu Water-Based Lube for $27: This is a great water-based lube that provides lasting lubrication without leaving you sticky. Plus, it's made from coconut water, so it has a nice, mild fragrance.
Maude Shine Water-Based Lube for $25: This used to be our top pick. It offers a silky-smooth texture, though it's on the thicker side for a water-based lube. Thicker water-based lubes typically last longer between applications. Using the thumb test, this lube gives you a slick but smooth cushion between your fingertips, which is a good indicator that it's going to keep things nice and slick.
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